Caralyn Sometimes I wonder, when push comes to shove, when it comes to laying the blame, when your kids or mine look at the world they came from, is it on my wide, freckled shoulders, or your olive-toned delicates? Or maybe we get to step back, put fault on those who found innocence irresistible, or found our vulnerable youth to be a simple depository. Did it all start with my brother and your father in our own respective beds? Is that why we sought each other out? A small bit of pheromone or unused semen on us both calling out to kind? Is that why on Friday nights with my head on your pillow, your mouth on my nipple, my arms around your back, I felt love for the first time at eight. When you left home and your self-nobled father at fourteen, a ward of the street, did you miss me? Or had we both just used the other? Do you still dream of a blonde, freckle-skinned girl, like I dream of your thick, brown hair and olive shoulders? Kathleen Hover 02/05/03